The myth of "You just need to be the BEST man a chick has ever been with, not the ONLY or FIRST man"

Leucosticte

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If she's been with 20 dudes and you've only been with 5 chicks, what are the odds you're the best she's ever been with?

Chances are, the dude who's been with 200 chicks, who was one of the 20 that she fucked, is better than you are. Otherwise, how did he get all those women?

It's like, if we're comparing two people, one of whom owns a restaurant, and one of whom owns a car repair shop, and the restaurant owner makes more money, that probably means he's adding more value, in the minds of the customers. He beats out the competition in the restaurant business better than the other guy beats out the competition in the car repair business; he brings in a volume of business and has a profit margin that together result in his making more money. The market says he's superior. If 10 meals at his restaurant cost the cost as installing a new transmission in some clunker, and people choose to give up the clunker before they give up dining at that restaurant, then that means they chose him and what he offers.

Men and women offer different stuff to their mates, but the fact remains that if you fucked 5 chicks and some previous dude she was with fucked 200 chicks, then probably that other dude is better than you, in her eyes. And most chicks these days have probably been with a dude like that, because those dudes are everywhere banging chicks.

To those who say their oneitis won't get get with a dude like that, because she's a good girl who doesn't go out partying or clubbing or whatnot, but rather just spends her time singing in church, and sitting in class, and studying at the library, and ringing up orders behind the counter of the deli where she works, I say, "You still don't get it, do you? He'll find her! That's what he does! That's ALL he does! You can't stop him! He'll wade through you, reach down her throat and pull her fuckin' hymen out!"

Also, keep in mind, the more guys she's been with, the more chances she's had to observe and experience different qualities in different men that she likes. So for example, one dude was a guitarist, another dude spoke French, another dude was jacked with huge muscles, etc. All of these dudes brought something to the table and she's gonna miss all of those unique characteristics and wish you offered all of them; she wants you to be a composite of the desirable traits in all these different guys, even though that's not really possible or realistic. So what she'll desire instead is just to keep having the freedom to ride the carousel forever; and this is how we end up with chicks saying they demand polyamory.
 
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Oxblood

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You can outcompete other men using sexual leverages, for example big dick is an advantage.

Big dick is a status symbol
 
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